Gov. James Mc Greevey signed the Domestic Partnerships Law earlier this year after the bill made a surprisingly easy journey through the state legislature. Yesterday, the Governor held a reception at his official residence to celebrate the enactment of the law. New Jersey is the fifth state to legalize domestic partnerships.
Jersey Pride, Inc. and other allied organizations will sponsor a festival and celebration at a park across the street from the Maplewood town hall. The town's mayor and other legislators who supported the new law are expected to speak at a welcoming ceremony.
The Star-Ledger story quotes my friends Rachelle and Vanessa:
Rachelle Clark, 47, and Vanessa Vann, 43, of North Plainfield arrived at South Orange Village Hall before 10 p.m. and were seated on a brick stoop waiting for officials to begin registering couples.
"It was never a thought not to come tonight," Clark said.
The couple married in a religious ceremony performed by a pastor inside their home in Elizabeth in August 2000.
While the ceremony was meaningful, Vann said, "You just know in your heart it's not legal." Registering under the new law, Clark added, "completes the wedding that we had."
Somewhere, June Jordan is smiling
Thinking of Rachelle and Vanessa, and of other good friends who will be participating in ceremonies today, I amd remind of June Jordan's essay "A New Politics of Sexuality." Declaring, "We must move out from the shadows of our collective subjugation -- as people of color/women/as gay/as lesbian/as bisexual human beings," she added:
I am Black and I am female and I am a mother and I am bisexual and I am a nationalist and I am an antinationalist. And I mean to be fully and freely all that I am!
...Recently, I have come upon gratuitous and appalling pseudoliberal pronouncements on sexuality. Too often, these utterances fall out of the mouths of people who first disdain any sentiment remotely related to homophobia, but who then proceed to issue outrageous opinions like the following:
- That it is blasphemous to compare the oppression of gay, lesbian or bisexual people to the oppression, say, of black people, or of Palestinians.
- That the bottom line about gay or lesbian or bisexual identity is that you can conceal it whenever necessary and therefore, why don't you just do that? Why don't you keep your deviant sexuality in the closet and let the rest of us -- we who suffer oppression for reasons of our ineradicable and always visible components of our personhood such as race or gender -- get on with our necessary, our more beleaguered struggle to survive?
...Freedom is indivisible or it is nothing at all besides sloganeering and and temporary, short-sighted and short-lived advancement for the few.
...If you can finally go to the bathroom wherever you find one, if you can finally order a cup of coffee and drink it wherever coffee is available, but you cannot follow your heart -- you cannot respect the response of your own honest body in the world -- then how much freedom does any one of us possess?
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Both the gospel liturgy and the Father Jacques' homily were very affecting. At one point he called all of the fathers into the aisle, had each man put his hand on the shoulder of the man in front of him, led a prayer for them, then gave each man a gift. There were hundreds of men in attendance, even though it was at 9 am. (This was actually the second Mass of the day.) Certainly part of the church's draw is its active involvement in the community; this 






