There’s a controversy brewing about a Jersey boy named
Budden
Did a remix with
Usher that all of a sudden
in the middle of the song about the wages of sin
tells a man to punch a woman to end the trouble he’s in.
Now I’m not trying to be a
nucca because I don’t need that game.
I get my cheddar for my knowledge, not for causing people pain.
And I’m not trying to be judgmental or accept one source’s conclusion
I checked Joe and Usher for myself so I won’t add to the confusion.
It’s a song called
“Confessions II” that has people heated
Usher gets a girl pregnant and tells his girlfriend that he cheated
Budden adds what to do if the girl insists on keeping it,
Says one punch to the stomach and the woman will be “leakin’ it”
And in the middle of it all, there’s some marketing moves
By the producers and the protestors – each one trying to prove
That their mentality is the reality that the masses should follow
The sad part of it all is that the argument’s hollow.
First there’s pretty-boy Usher who’s at the top of the charts
He picked Budden for the remix for his rep for having heart
Budden’s shtick is that his stories are straight from the streets
And based on his life with his Jersey City peeps.
The protest comes from
Black Americans for Life
An anti-abortion group looking for some light
They’re with
“Right-to-Life Committee” “outreach” agenda
A pro-Republican lobby trying to score black votes in November
Neither Usher nor Budden has answered the stories
That the Christian press is running and the rest have ignored.
The articles say that music fans should be outraged
But from the
message boards and interviews – it’s barely even on their page.
The fans come off like squirrels and the stars are their nuts
Shaking what their momma gave them and offering their butts
To be whipped or kissed – to them it’s all the same
When you’re craving just a little bit of glory in the game.
I’m sure that Budden’s answer is he’s just being real
Just reporting that this is how some men actually feel
When a woman gets a baby from casual sex
Because neither of them thought about what would happen next
Or in other words, he wasn’t really tryin’ to get wid it
For a minute, he and girly were just relaxing and kickin’ it
Since it didn’t mean nothing he is thinking abortion
And when she says no, then it feels like extortion
And we can all agree that their values are degraded
But nobody is asking how they got so jaded
Because they’re living in a world where they see that greed is good
And they think gangstas run it all from the White House to the hood.
They learn a little history and they begin to peep the mystery
How a man is what he owns and a woman is his property
And the crooks look like stars
And honest folks get punked
And the cops go after guppies
On the orders of the sharks
And you wonder why they’re cynical
It’s really nothing mystical
It’s a logical extension
Of our Victorian invention.
You see “Confessions Part II” is the
flipside of Iraq
Patriarchy in the Homeland – a full-frontal attack
On the weak and the unique in the service of hubris
Terror breeds more terror; yet we continue to do this
Now Budden is wrong – don’t get my message twisted
Like
Nelly, he’s foolish and he’s misogynistic
But we won’t ever succeed against their tricked up mentality
Until we’re willing to acknowledge the broader social reality
Budden
wanted to be a lawyer until he messed up in school
How’d the boy get the drugs that made him into a fool?
So many young black men reduced to mixtape ambitions
Because they can’t see themselves in the straight world’s system.
You wanted to turn it around? Give these
boys and girls some time
Stop the robot testing game that
leaves so many kids behind
Let’s fund some counseling that works instead of just
slinging pills
Let’s deal with family literacy and life-management skills
Let’s get some parents some jobs, and let’s have rehab that’s real
Fund more
micro-businesses – that would be the deal.
You want the values to change? Let’s get the real hurters
You know we’re still chasing OJ while many
more are being murdered
It’s time to bring about a change but Joe Budden’s just a symptom
Of a larger social malady called blaming the victim.